#12
How do relationships start? WHATS THE PROCESS? Its so difficult.
Well there is no process, no steps or procedure to follow to get a boyfriend/girlfriend. If you are good at something, let it show, don’t hide it. Show how unique and different you can be from those other girls. If it’s not easy talking to a guy, then it most likely won’t work. Be yourself and don’t lie. Make friends and don’t jump right in. Get to know them. If you feel flirty around them and like you can be honest and yourself, your relationship is starting. Start off “talking” and when you’re both ready he will ask you out. But as I said, go with how your feelings are feeling. There is no step-by-step process.
I’m tired. Not because I’ve been doing a lot in sports, working my ass off in school, studying all night, and doing chores, while practicing my music. But because… it still bothers me. I hate watching her with a new guy. It kills me, even when I don’t show it. Now you might say, “Oh just tell her straight forward, talk to her,” this and that, but I’ve done that. What’d I get? A bitch in my face and her several new boyfriends on my ass. I mean sure.. There’s a new girl there for me too, and she helps me forget. But I’m afraid I’m making her just another temporary. What do I do? What can I really do that’ll succeed and won’t make me fall flat on my ass all over again?
(Dear Mr. Confused) With you being a guy and all, just know it’s alright to cry. Don’t hold any of your feelings in, it will just come back around and hurt you more like it may have already for you. Find out what went wrong with your ex and think it over. This way you won’t fall again and know your mistake next time. I’d recommend not talking to her at all. It may be difficult but that’s the only way to stop thinking about her. I mean, what’s the point if you will just think about your past when you talk to her? Accept whatever pain and sadness you have because you were probably good to her and it wasn’t your fault. Denying it only hurts more. Get past the part where you hate your ex, because everyone hates their ex after a breakup. Talk to your best friend about your situation too because it helps. Get rid of anything that makes you hurt when you see it or think about it. But importantly, let go of your ex and move on and stay positive.
I saw that you wanted someone to create a “Project Delight” banner. I gave it a shot. Sorry if it wasn’t exactly what you looked for, or if its something you dont want at all, but I got bored. Here you go. :)
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Thanks m0nk3yface!
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